When will I get married? Can astrology answer this question? How does it do that?
You have often heard that marriages are made in heaven and right person meet each other on earth at right time. Yes it is true at some point of time because everybody has different timing of getting married, not everyone get married at 25 or not everyone get their soul mate at 25. This is a process that take years to search for correct life partner and if you get the one that doesn’t mean you are going to marry her/him just after meeting.
Have you ever tried to get married at early age but somehow fate is not in your favor? You tried hard but couldn’t get married. This is dreadful situation of someone’s life as they don’t know what to do next. What would they do to get married? These questions can lead you to get checked your horoscope so that you can find potholes in your kundli.
Although, some of you still don’t want to understand that an astrologer can give an answer to all your question. Because don’t want someone to draw a chart on paper and tell you the facts why you are not getting married. Face it truth! Today’s reality is everybody wants an answer but don’t want to ask a question.
Essential elements to determine horoscope
Let me tell the truth, your marriage prediction completely depends on the date of birth. An astrologer may need your date of birth, birth place, and time of the birth to create horoscope. You need to be accurate about your time because in kundli there is period and sub-period to deduce what going to happen and when it will happen. If your time of birth is 10:00 AM then you cannot tell it is 10: 15 AM or 10:00 PM, it can affect your periods and sub-periods by approx one month or year.
What does an astrologer do to predict marriage?
From astrology you can get the various aspects that can predict your marriage, some of them are 12 zodiac signs, planetary positions, and 12 houses. For marriage, simply look into the conditions of 7th house because in astrology it rules relationships and marriage. Moreover, in both girl and boy kundli have different ruling planets such as Jupiter and Venus resp. for marriage. These two planets directly have ruler ship over the 7th house in birth chart. When these planets are void then it nullifies any positive features to get married from the other planets.
Another factor that determines the delay marriage is planet Saturn within or ruling in 7th house. However, its placement does not denies the marriage like void Venus. In most cases, the person either act upon the idea of marriage, need to take time. A Saturn placement means, you will marry someone with having age difference or you will get married when the 1st Saturn returns means this will happen around age 28 to 35. This indirect indicates at age of 28 you will gain some maturity and things will come in order and you career will take good turn (Saturn’s effect). Moreover, Jupiter, Mercury, Venus, and Moon provides the auspiciousness in marriage but Saturn, Rahu, Ketu, and Mars brings inauspiciousness.
Reason behind early and delayed marriage
You have an early marriage when the planets are auspicious and delay when the planets are inauspicious. Another reason for getting married at early age when the mercury, moon and Venus placed in the 7th house. Here the early age refers to as age between 18-23 years.
Moreover, when the Jupiter is placed in the 7th house, it will definitely get you married at the age of 24-26 years. Though, if one inauspicious planet is present in the 7th house, no matter when you get engaged, your marriage will definitely get delayed or obstacles come in path due to sun and mars respectively. Mars not only brings hindrance but also creates mangalik dosh in kundli. These happens only in one case when the inauspicious planets are very strong in 7th house.
What is the exact time to get married?
Now the main and important question arises after going to the astrologer is when they will get married. Well there is also a formula for this or astrological study that not only look after the planetary positions in the houses but also tells the marriage prediction date or year or age:
- There are likelihood of early marriage or marry to the younger is higher, when a women have sun oriental in 4th, 5th, 6th, 10th, 11th, and 12th house.
- Sun in 7th, 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 8th or 9th house denotes late marriage or marry to the elder one.
- For men, astrologer considers moon with respect to sun. If it is in 1st and 2nd oriental then it denotes early marriage.
- If moon is in 3rd or 4th oriental, it denotes late marriage.
- If a person is entering into marriage phase, their marriage prediction will show the transition. The transit phase will begin and the ruler of the 7th house will get activated.
- The sun and moon also get affected in horoscope when time of marriage will come.
Every problem has solution in this planet either physical problem or astrological problem. You can seek guidance from horoscope maker, he will definitely tell you some remedies. The most common is wearing stone to get planets fixed and praying to god.
It is said that worshipping lord Shiva and Mata Parvati can bring the auspiciousness in marriage. If one is getting delayed in marriage then they can keep 16 Mondays fast in Savan month. Tie a knot between lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati and pray for early marriage. Also, a lady can offer sindur, red bangles, and red chunni in Lord Shiva temple.Moreover, boys can offer holy Ganga to the lord Shiva with 108 flowers garland or bel patra and continue chanting Om Namah Shivay and wish for early marriage. This ritual can only be performed on consecutive 7 Fridays.