Do love marriage need kundali matching, astrologer suggestions?
As per Indian tradition, it is customary to match the Marriage Prediction of a couple to know the marriage compatibility of the couple. This is usually done using the Ashtakoota Guna Milan system where there are 8 major aspects (Kootas) that are considered while matching Kundlis, each of which has certain points. The total score that a couple gets helps to understand how their marriage compatibility. To know marriage compatibility, various aspects like mental compatibility, physical and sexual compatibility, personality and temperaments are assessed and scored out of a total of 36 points.
It is often suggested that couples who get a compiled score which is less than 18 points, should either avoid getting married or remedy negative aspects (doshas) in their relationship before marriage to help you avoid problems later on in your marriage. Couples who obtain a compiled score which is between 18-24 points are likely to have a relatively stable married life. However, in Kundli matching, getting a compiled score between 24-32 points is considered to be very good and indicates a successful marriage. For those couples whose score is between 32-36 points, being an excellent match will surely lead the path to a successful and happy marriage.
In today’s world, you find that many of the couples meet either during studies or at the place of work and they get to know each another very well due to the daily interaction between them. Now the question arises here is that is it necessary that love marriages need Kundali matching?
As a part of Kundali matching as per Ashtakoota Guna Milan system, a check is done on the compatibility of nature, sexual abilities, attitudes and tendencies to make sure that they are partners suitable for each other. This is done because the two people are not known to each another and have to spend their entire life with each other. In the case of love marriages, the couple is known to each another for a long period of time and know each another mentally and in some cases physically too as they have had sexual relationship too.
In such cases, the only need is to check if they will have divorce, to check their life span, the point of view of having children, tendency to cheat on each other because otherwise everything else matches fine. Beyond all these considerations, if both the partners decide to tie the knot despite all odds and challenges, then kundali matching makes no sense at all.
Usually relations are based on mutual understanding, love and trust. A person would never be happy if he is forced into marriage. Suppose a horoscope has mishaps or divorce in it, no amount of efforts can get him a good match. As these mishaps are due to karma of the person, they are bound to take place any way.
To avoid the impact of poor kundali matching in a love marriage, depending on your own anushtanabala, sadhana or astrological remedies are done from time to time. Efforts to understand your life partner in the long run and trying to understand the needs of the partner will help to have a successful marriage.
Now let’s seek the answer to is Kundali matching needed for Love marriage.
The answer to this is both Yes as well as No.
The answer being No because having been in a relationship for a long time, you don’t need to check the points obtained in the Asthakoota Guna Milan System as the couple is already compatible physically, sexually and mentally which is the main intention behind Kundali matching by this system.
The answer being a Yes as it is necessary to see the promise of marriage in the horoscope, the quality of married life, the promise of children in the horoscope, the life span of both the partners in the marriage horoscopes. Once a check of these things are done, then it is the choice of the individual in accepting or discarding the partner depending on the mutual affection, love and determination to spend the life with each other accepting both the good and bad times in their life.
The main thing to understand here is that Kundali matching helps to choose the best partner from the choices that are available; mostly you will attract horoscopes according to the combinations in their horoscopes. Sometimes, you may get opportunity of a gem of a person but you should be able to recognise the person else you lose a good opportunity. There are times where due to parental pressure, a person would not marry the partner he loves and has a bad married life and it could be vice versa too. It is our choice to take the chance given to us by destiny.
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