Causes of extra marital affairs according to astrology.
Suddenly, today I heard about Soumil and Aparnawho are having major problems in their married life. I was surprised to hear this piece of news. Soumil and Aparna were known in our friends circle as a couple made for each other.
Slowly, Aparna found changes in behaviour of Soumil towards her. He started coming home late from work. No more good bye kisses on way out to work. This was when she suspected something amiss and her doubts turned to be true.Soumil was found to be cheating on Aparna and having an extramarital affair with a colleague at work.Theirs being a love marriage, there was no kundali reading for marriage done. The trust or love Aparna had for Soumil was totally destroyed and this showed that Soumilwas not happy with Aparna in spite of them having had a love marriage.
How could such a thing happen? First, we have to look at the kundali matching by dateof both the horoscopes and understand where the problem was in the horoscope.
At time of marriage, it is essential to study both the horoscopes of the partners using the AshtakootaGuna Milan system.
The AshtakootGuna Milan system consists of 8 categories
The main factor to be seen is the GrahaMaitriKoota. It is the 5thKoota in the AshtakootGuna Milan system and is about the compatibility and mutual love between the partners who desire to be married. Psychological or emotional compatibility is very important as it becomes easy for understanding and communication between the partners. If there is a good mental compatibility of the partners, there will be trust, acceptance and love in the relationship. A high GrahaMaitriKoota score is a good match as there will be fewer differences between the partners and is considered auspicious and increases the compatibility in marriage. A low GrahaMaitriKoota is inauspicious and denotes poor mental compatibility.
Apart from the AshtakootaGuna Milan system, we also have to study the planets and houses which give us details about extramarital affairs.
This was the exact mistake made by Soumil and Aparna that they did not get marriage prediction done bybest kundli matching before their marriage. If this had been done before marriage, it would have solved a lot of their problems.
So, it is essential to do kundali matching by dateof both the horoscopes before decision of marriage is taken.