Matching of kundalis is a very important pre-requisite for one of the biggest decisions in life – marriage! However, at the time of matching kundali’s there are several problems that can come up. This becomes a very big issue, especially in the case of love matches, when the partners are keen to get together. In astrology Ashtakoot milan is done to test the compatibility at all levels for the partners. At least 18 of the 36 gunas should match in order to be considered as a green signal for marriage. If the matching gunas are below 18, then they are said to be poorly matched. So, what are the next steps?
Detailed Consultation with an astrologer
If the kundali does not match, consultation with an experienced astrologer is certainly recommended to get the upayas (solutions) of the doshas (problems). Astrology may give you the solution to tie the knot with a particular person, even if your kundalis do not match.
Understanding Doshas in Kundali Matching:
Before delving into the astrological remedies, it's essential to comprehend what doshas are in the context of Kundali matching. Doshas are astrological imperfections or imbalances that can adversely affect different aspects of life, including marriage. The three most common doshas are:
Mangal Dosha: Associated with the planet Mars, Mangal Dosha is believed to bring forth challenges related to temperamental issues, communication, and compatibility.
Nadi Dosha: Nadi Dosha occurs when the Nadi (pulse) of both partners is the same. It is considered inauspicious and can lead to health issues or difficulties in conception.
Bhakoot Dosha: This dosha arises when the Moon signs of the couple are incompatible, potentially causing financial problems, emotional stress, or disagreements.
Common Problems in kundali matching
• The usual problems could be due to the influence of malefic planets, pitru dosh
• influence of shani, rahu etc who may cause obstacles.
• The position of Guru in the charts is also important and has to be analysed.
• Some of the common doshas observed are Nadi, Bhakoot or Koot Milan Doshas
Remedies for dosha in kundali matching
Mangal Dosha Remedies:
Mangal Puja: Conducting a Mangal Puja with the guidance of a qualified priest can help mitigate the negative effects of Mangal Dosha.
Wearing Red Coral (Moonga): Wearing a red coral gemstone, associated with Mars, is believed to pacify Mangal Dosha.
Nadi Dosha Remedies:
Chanting Mantras: Regular chanting of specific mantras, such as the Mrityunjaya Mantra, can help counteract the adverse effects of Nadi Dosha.
Performing Nadi Nivarana Puja: Seek the assistance of a knowledgeable astrologer to perform the Nadi Nivarana Puja to neutralize the dosha.
Bhakoot Dosha Remedies:
Gemstone Remedies: Wearing gemstones corresponding to the Moon sign can help balance the energies and reduce the impact of Bhakoot Dosha.
Rituals and Pujas: Engage in rituals and pujas as advised by an astrologer to address the specific challenges posed by Bhakoot Dosha.
It is important to take care of doshas or problems that can lead to an unhappy married life. Therefore, one must be willing to perform the remedies and take the precautionary steps to ward off the negative effects and results.
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